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“The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you; they are unique manifestations of the human spirit.”
An Awakened Man’s Apology To Women: As a Man, I feel sorrow that women and feminine energy have been suppressed for so many thousands of years on our planet. Everywhere we look, Women have been disenfranchised. Throughout history, we have raped and abused you, burned you at the stake, bought and sold your bodies for sexual pleasure, barred you from religious and political office, relegated you to subservient chores, forced you to hide your faces and even cut off your organs of sexual pleasure.
Although I may not have done these things personally, I am aware of the forces in the masculine psyche that are responsible for dishonoring the feminine. I take responsibility for those forces and choose no longer to be run by them. I do this on behalf of all men, in order to usher in a new era of co-creation. I commit to treat your heart as the sacred temple it is, and I commit to celebrating the feminine in my intimate relationships as well as in my relationship to all life. I acknowledge that the religions of the past several thousand years have been mainly founded by and propagated by Men.
You are awoken in a way that no longer draws an ordinary Man. Wise Woman, wild Woman, ancient muse of artists and poets, you crave a partner who can discern your siren call. You’ve been the shadow that’s slipped past him on moonlit walks, when he’s been searching his heart. He’s reached out to grasp you but the time was never right. Like a wisp of wind, you’ve eluded him on his journey toward enlightenment. Perhaps he was not ready, perhaps you weren’t either, while you’ve been soaking your bones in mystery and reading sacred texts, he’s also been feeding his mind with poetry and prose.
A Man with a deep voice and gruffness and grunting—at least sometimes. I like a Man who can occasionally cuss without apologizing, mixed company or not, and that will laugh heartily. I like a Man who can wake up next to me with my hair tussled and knotted and grab my ass and say, “Come over here, my sexy, beautiful Woman.” A Man that I can feel naked with—emotionally exposed and fragile & tender – who doesn’t feel threatened by my blatant femininity.
I bow to you, the men who leave us breathless. You have mastered the complexity of what it means to love a Woman. Perhaps when you were new to us, you found love at the hand of some generous teacher, someone who knew that to receive one must give. A Man like you resists our pleas for mercy, while our eyes close and our mouths reach for the thing you use to tease us with. Thank you for knowing us enough to please us. Thank you for giving without expectation of receiving. Thank you for finding the secret places that thrill us, and whispering such tender and freely given “I love you.”
She’s Opening Her Phoenix Code… That is because she’s ignited a sacred fire inside her that holds the fire of the sun. It’s burning to ashes all that is untrue in her life. No one else but she herself can now shine the light to who she’s becoming. She’s always looked for mentors and idols to emulate. Not anymore. She’s evolving into a Woman who is unique. No one in her world really fits the template for who she is becoming. She’s realizing that at this time she has to fall back on herself to mold, forge and craft her new self. The key to owning all of herself, is to be her own source. She’s remembering the art of reincarnating in the same body. The more she stands in her own singularity, the better she fits into her world.
We Women crave men we can rely on. We want Men who complement us. We don’t want to compete with you. We want Men to know our core desires, honor our brilliance, beauty, personalities, and capabilities. We want Men who lift us up, not ones focused on tearing us down. We revel in the present and look for men who can take us to the future. We will not give away our precious energy.
“I believe that if some Men would just stop trying to impress all Women and simply focus on the physical and emotional needs of the one they are with, their lives would be far less expensive and much more fulfilling.”
We are willing to go to great lengths to develop ourselves emotionally. We will not apologize, minimize our feelings or sell ourselves short for self-entitled brats who want to be the prize. We want you to stand for the greatest version of us. We will not fluff you up emotionally. If a Woman is bold enough to tell you she wants you or likes you, you need take the reins. We won’t cater to your insecurities if you lack the ability to feel our love. We will not shovel reassurance at you. If you want us, come get us. We will not wait around. We look for authenticity and integrity. We want the real deal. But our intensity… our bitchiness… it has an origin. We know when we’re getting less than your best. We want your love and affection. We crave your admiration and adoration. We want you = We need you.
The Head That Should Not Go Naked Will Find A Cloth Seller When The Market Opens …
There is, indeed, a fire burning over the earth, taking with it plants and animals, cultures, languages, ancient skills and visionary wisdom. Quelling this flame, and re-inventing the poetry of diversity is perhaps the most important challenge of our times. Sensitivity to nature is not an innate attribute of indigenous peoples. It is a consequence of adaptive choices that have resulted in the development of highly specialized peripheral skills. But those choices in turn spring from a comprehensive view of nature and the universe in which Man and Woman are perceived as but elements inextricably linked to the whole.
HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN: It’s not where a Man touches his Woman as much as how he touches her that makes her feel safe. It’s not his touch that matters as much as the energy of his intent. And when all of these are aligned it’s not even a touch needed to make her shudder, but a word, a breath or even just his gaze.
Wild Woman + Spiritual Seeker = Choose A Man Who Will Serve & Feed Your Soul…
You are awoken in a way that no longer draws an ordinary Man. Wise Woman, wild Woman, ancient muse of artists and poets, you crave a partner who can discern your siren call. You’ve been the shadow that’s slipped past him on moonlit walks, when he’s been searching his heart. He’s reached out to grasp you but the time was never right. Like a wisp of wind, you’ve eluded him on his journey toward enlightenment.
Perhaps while you’ve been listening to the whispers of forest spirits and leaning against wise old trees, he’s been a step or two behind you, aching for the sound of your steps on the sodden moss. You have seen him in the cards, he’s illusive but he’s real. He’s a challenge, he’s unafraid to speak his mind. He’s a Man who knows his path. You need a Man whose strength is in more than his hands. You need a Man whose character makes your heart pound, your body lose control. He’s the kind of Man who will drink your essence but who won’t worship you, because he knows how real you need to be.
I love a Woman who has built up strong walls around her heart. It tells me that you’ve been through some things and, not only are you a survivor, but from those experiences, you’ve learned how to better protect yourself. You’ve also learned the true value of your love and now getting close to your heart is not that easy. Her secret desire is to be ravished, lovingly forced open in unbearable pleasure, and taken fully open to love by a Man of deep spiritual wisdom, strength, humor, sensitivity and integrity.
***Never feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter if they’re a sister, brother, mother, father, lover or childhood friend…You don’t have time for someone who causes you pain or takes from you more than they give. Constantly evaluate the nature of your relationships and don’t hesitate to banish someone from your orbit if they’re toxic to your soul…. Is it time to take out some trash in your life.
Any guy can spoil you with materialistic things, but the right man can do way more than just that… He can spoil you with understanding, listening, honesty, loyalty, affection, communication, and he can spoil you with happiness…
I no longer force things. What I only have Space and Energy for things that are meant for Me. You simply come to know yourself as Life Itself. And you turn towards the wounded place. And you flush it with attention, which is love. And maybe the wound will always be with you. Maybe you will always walk with the hurt. But now, you hold it. It doesn’t hold you. You are the container, not the contained. The One who is always present. The One who can bear even the most intense feeling states. The Indestructible One. The Infinite One. The Powerful One. You.”
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Fataah Ewe’ = There is much in this valuable to both men & women, & I hope both drink deeply of such wisdom, as happiness is about this.